some people would say that confrontation is not their forte; they absolutely dislike arguing with people. and thats okay i know plenty of people like that and some are my good friends. other people just bottle arguments up inside of them and instead of talking them out with people they just keep it and let it well up inside of them until they finally cant take it anymore and they blow up on someone. other people prefer to talk the situation out and just deal with it right away and get it over with. i am a mixture of not liking confrontation and keep things inside and not wanting to talk about it right away and i know that and am working on it. i have come to realize that it is better to just talk through arguments rather then just keep it inside especially with people that are close to you. i know that its going to suck at the time and there might be some raising of voices and some tears but in the end it is worth all the heartache to just resolve the problem and be happy with the people close to you.
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